Your father hits you because he loves you.
An animal lover keeps birds in cage because he loves animals.
Someone calling themselves dog-lover keeps large dogs at home because he loves them.
The boyfriend kills the girlfriend cause he loves her.
A bullfighter kills the bull cause he loves bulls.
Armies kill millions of people in name of love for their own people.
I say to myself: If love kills so much, I prefer to hate.
If you love something or someone, you let it be as it is. You love their freedom as much as they do.